An unplanned ride to work this morning. Unplanned in that I had not planned to ride to work until I heard the traffic report on the radio saying that the Tullamarine Freeway was really heavy due to a car on fire. This normally means the roads I take to work are bumper-to-bumper as well, so I thought it might be quicker to ride. As it turned out, the roads were not that busy, but hey, I got some morning exercise! Showers were forecast tonight, but it was still looking clear when I left work, so I decided to take the longer “bike path” route home. As I got closer and closer to home, the sky was getting darker and darker, but I made it home before it rained. I hate getting my nice, shiny bike wet! Anyway, just over 23km bike riding today then, no other exercise.
Home made pizzas for tea – one of my favourites. Toppings – tomato pizza sauce, salmon, mushrooms, capsicum, olives and anchovies. Adrienne had bought a larger than normal jar of anchovies, thinking we could keep some in the fridge for later. Piffle (there’s that word again) I say, double anchovies for me! I love those hairy, salty little fellas.
There is no question (in my mind anyway) as to the power of this blogosphere place. The encouragement, positive vibes and inspiring stories are there everyday. Sometimes though a comment, or thought, really hits home, and sometimes they are just simple little things that just strike a chord somewhere. Tonight it was a comment on Aischai’s blog made by Mizfit (who would have to be the most positive, inspiring person in all of the blogosphere), she said to Aischai;
“Here’s hoping you’re as amazed by the person you’re becoming as your readers are. The inside you. The YOU who is ready to give your OWN DAMN SELF a cheer.”
The inside you. This got me to thinking about how my “inside me” has changed since I lost all my weight, how much better I feel about myself, and how this self-confidence, or self-esteem, is so much more important than what you look like. I think “what you look like” has a lot to do with how you feel about yourself, but for me it is now more about what I can do, than it is about what I look like. And how, doing these things that I never used to do (running, riding, exercising) make me feel. Endorphins swimming, stress dissipating ….
The YOU who is ready to give your OWN DAMN SELF a cheer. This statement just encapsulates that self-confidence thing so well. I loved it. We all need to cheer ourselves on a bit more – you can not do too much of this!
Mizfit, as usual, you got that nail right on the head. For me, anyway.
August 7, 2008 at 11:22 pm |
ok
with all fear that this mightcould be misconstrued as sometimes comments/emails are hard to ‘read’ Ive been asking myself WHY Im doing MizFit.
Ive made nary a cent—which is my own damn fault Im sure
but Im committed to not having bigassads or selling stuff & at some point BlogHer will kick in…—-and it’s such a time investment.
yet, the more I pondered, it is TRULY A LABOR OF LOVE.
time flies when Im writing the posts and the comments/commenters support of one another carry me through my oft long days.
so that was my answer.
because I love it.
and you guys.
and REALLY want for you all to succeed.
thank you thank you for your kind words.
Miz.
August 8, 2008 at 12:00 am |
Ohhh, I love home made pizzas – my favourite has artichoke hearts and fetta cheese on home made base. It’s one of the main reasons I’ve hung on to my hubby, LOL.
I too really appreciate the comments on my blog, not that it’s always very interesting, and I always enjoy reading the blogs I’ve subscribed to; it’s nice to feel that connection.
August 8, 2008 at 12:16 am |
I was just thinking the exact same thing today – how since I’ve started blogging and interacting with all you guys I feel a lot happier with the inner me. For me I suspect it helps that nobody can see how I look on here, so nobody can make any value judgements based on my appearance as I always worry they do in real life. All the nice comments and advice I get are entirely based on my writing, my journey, me as a person. It’s made me a lot more confident.
TA x
August 8, 2008 at 5:37 am |
I have to credit the blogging community with a lot of my success as well. What a great bunch of folks you all are.
And thanks for your encouragement as well Andrew. You are really one of my inspirations!
August 8, 2008 at 10:21 am |
Home made pizza’s are the bomb. I can’t stand anchovies but my weakness is mushrooms.
Your comments about Mizfit are on the ball, but I think it’s important for you to recognize how much of an impact you yourself make on others with your comments. Especially to me. We’ve only met once but never have I felt you far away on the support network and it means so much to me. Especially the most recent comment and your compliment. Very much appreciated thankyou *hugs*
August 8, 2008 at 7:37 pm |
So, what time will the pizza be ready?
I agree completely about the amazing support that the blogging community can provide- people who don’t blog will never get it!
August 10, 2008 at 9:55 am |
Just catching up with your posts Andrew + I am inspired by this — I’m a long way off finding my inner confidence yet (at least 50 lbs away) but I know the more I lose, the better I will feel about myself.
Thanks 4 a thoughtful post.